Have you felt as though all the romance is gone from your relationship and wondering what you can do about it? Have you tried man techniques to get his attention back and nothing seem to be working? As you read further, I will show you how to use your feminine power to inspire the devotion in men to naturally feel drawn to you.
Why Isn't He Romantic Anymore?
It's only natural that you have questions about your man and why he isn't as romantic with you anymore. Many times when men pull away, women think it's about them and focus deeply into analyzing a man's behavior to see why he pulled away.
Fear causes a woman to feel overwhelmed and she may start a cycle of worry, panic, confusion, anger etc causing her to make the wrong choices. When in this state of mind, she may also lash out because she doesn't understand what is going on and wants her man to be close to her again.
Sometimes a man is going through his masculine cycle and needs space to find his way into a deeper path in his life and wants to focus on that journey so he doesn't have alot of emotions invested in being romantic.
The worst thing to do is to panic or assume. What you can do instead is discover ways to inspire romantic feelings independent from the outcome. Click Here to Learn from a Man how to Inspire the Feelings of Romance in Men
Shouldn't He Be More Romantic if He's Attracted to Me or Loves Me?
As women we view love a little different from men.
We feel that if a man loves us, he should demonstrate it all the time no matter what. But that simply isn't how men work. Men can go in waves with how they operate because they are more linear in their thinking.
They generally focus in on one or two main task at a time. Men are so focused in fact that you may have felt his deep pursuit of you when he was chasing after you. It may have felt extremely intense, his passion to want to get to know you and you didn't feel as if it would slow down.
It's virtually impossible to keep up the same kind of intensity ALL the time. Men are more like sprinters while women are more long distant runners. If you look at the muscles and body structure for sprinters, it is quite different from that of long distant runners. So emotionally, men generally sprint in spurts and then they may pull back a bit. When this happens, the key is to remain in your feminine power and learn ways to inspire, not manipulate or blame.
Often women feel this way because it makes us feel unsafe when a man pulls back. We don't feel his presence or desire for us, so we wonder if his attraction for us is still present.
Do you feel as though your man has lost interest in you? Did he pull back and you're wondering what happened?
In some cases, women try to understand men from their point of view. Some women don't don't believe that if a man wants to take a break, isn't as romantic or if he's taking his time that he's truly emotionally invested or loves the woman. There has been SO many instances where men pull away (for their own reasons) then come back with a firm conscious commitment or even commitment that leads to marriage. Keep in mind there is NO cookie cutter way for all men.
"Feminine and masculine needs for appreciation grow though levels, from self-doubt, to self-assurance, to self-giving. At the lower levels, a relationship can be rife with neediness: you are needy for constant reassurance that you are loved, desired, and attractive, and your masculine partner is needy for your admiration of his success and attainments. The middle levels of growth involve developing self-appreciation, self-acceptance, and self-admiration. The higher levels of growth involve surrendering open and giving your deepest gifts of love and freedom--in spite of whether you feel appreciated by others or yourself." - Deida
Why Did He Disappear?
Some men have a way of acting in ways that confuses women. He could seem really into you one minute and the next he blows hot and cold. Did he disappear and you're wondering why?
There is no one reason why a man will disappear despite some of what you might have read on the internet. Men disappear or pull back for a variety of reasons. It all depends on what was happening between you and the man you were dating. It's even more difficult if you have feelings for him or fell in love with him because of the emotional attraction you share.
Maybe he made alot of promises to you, told you how much you meant to him, and said many wonderful things to you and now you are scared or confused. Will he ever come back? What should you do now?
If you spend too much time focused on him, he will lose his attraction for you. The key is to focus on yourself first then play in the space of him not being there by inspiring his attention. Here's a great quote to consider: "When a man sees you are focused on your own dreams or on elevating yourself, he feels safer marrying you because he doesn't worry about what you'll be tryin to take away from him" - Sherry Argov
What is feminine power and how can it make him more romantic?
Feminine power is about the dance you have with your own joy. This is the idea that is lost in our modern society so most women spend their time trying to "do" things to "get" results. When we as women focus too much of our energies on "doing" to get results, we act from a pseudo masculine mindset which rarely ever works.
power is in our smile, our dance, our soul, our song. When you are
feeling frustrated at your man because he isn't as romantic as he was
before, one of the questions to ask is, "Where is my power?"
then go and search for it.